Concrete Experiences and Reflection

I am currently reading Linda Darling-Hammond's Powerful Learning. It's a terrific book, full of research concerning teaching for understanding and making thinking visible. LDH discusses the value of concrete experience, saying that it is often a prerequisite to "learning to use information in more abstract or general ways."

I was reminded of a June finalization meeting with one of our school's "car boys." Three of our male students made it their mission to repair two cars this year. C. was telling me about attaching the new exhaust pipe on J's Fiero. He said that it was very difficult to attach the spring. I asked him why the exhaust pipe needed a spring. His explanation impressed me.

At first C. said that he didn't know why it needed a spring--he'd never thought about it. He thought for a minute and said that he figures it needs a spring for the same reason the body of the car is "held up" by springs, that roads aren't smooth and you "need something with play in it" between the road and the body. "It takes some of the bounce. Makes less stress on the body." I asked him what he meant by "stress" and he used the exhaust pipe as an example. He said that it is made of hard metal and that if it kept getting "slammed" by bumps in the road, it would break, maybe snap apart.

He continued to think and then said, "It's like when you shoot a gun. If you have the stock pressed up to your shoulder, it "absorbs some of the kick." He said it hurts some, but it moves "with the gun." He said if you were to hold the gun out away from your shoulder and shoot it, it would slam into you and "cause some damage." C wasn't sure that was a "good analogy," but thought that it was probably the "same principle.".

C. is on his way to understanding physics--suspension, oscillation, transfer of energy, etc. His hands-on experiences and purposeful reflection are working together. He is teasing out some important abstract principles that he can generalize to many situations. This is learning.

In the fall, we'll take it a step further with C. He's ready to learn the terminology and begin to tie up the loose ends of his thinking. I have to believe that he will own this learning and take it with him to a much greater extent than if he had learned it by wading through a textbook.

Physiological Synchrony or Collective Joy

I'm back to pondering Goleman's book. Yesterday's thought was about physiological synchrony--when a mood sweeps through a crowd with lightning speed. We've all experienced that--at ball games, concerts, sermons, aha moments in study groups, recreating with family and friends. I've always called it collective joy. These moments are unplanned--a blessing when they happen. So it's interesting to look at them more objectively. If we could understand what causes these moments of biological alignment, could we more often intentionally create them?

One of my creative outlets is to sing with a band called Highland Drive. These moments occur for us in rehearsal from time to time. There are moments of extraordinary fusion when we're all in sync and the music that comes out of us gives us goose bumps and raises the hair on the back of our necks. Those moments are always celebrated with "woo-hoos" and grins and high-fives. When those moments occur for us in live performance, it's doubly exciting. It's one thing to connect with the guys you spend a lot of time with, take risks with--amazing, but to be expected. It's another thing entirely to experience that connection with complete strangers. What is it that can transform an audience into one being?

Goleman says that one thing that opens the doors for these connections is the "absence of a power hierarchy." With no power structure, the person with the most emotionally expressive face sets the mood for the rest of the group. This can be dangerous. When you play it out in a decision-making group, one person can have a lot of power to change the moods and thinking of the rest of the group.

Goleman also references research that demonstrates the existence of a "gravity-like pull toward thinking and feeling alike" when we are involved in close relationships. I know this is true. In our school, my students meet twice a day in twenty minute advisories. They sit in a circle and check-in around what's going on in their lives and grapple with big ideas that we throw into the middle for discussion. There is no power structure in these circles and I am continually amazed by their openness and their growth. They are learning to respect and consider alternate points of view. They are learning that it's OK to ask questions, getting over their fears of looking foolish. And occasionally, we have those "goose bump moments" when we simultaneously discover new thought. It's beautiful.

I am reminded of the time near the end of the year when we were discussing Tupac Shakur's piece "The Rose That Grew From Concrete" and students came to all kinds of personal and group aha's. The conversation began on the surface--the "to be expected" comments about reaching for your dreams in spite of roadblocks. It turned when D. made the comment that not only is the rose reaching up toward the sun, but it's stretching downward and gathering nutrients from the soil. Goose Bumps! There was a full minute of silence and immediate group fusion as we all "got it" together. Then C. proposed that we answer that question--What is your soil and what is your concrete? Wow! Suddenly students were getting very real about the things that keep them strong--their foundations--and also opening up (some owning for the first time) about the things that hold them back.

The more of those moments that occur, the stronger a group becomes. So how have we created that in our advisories? I'm going to continue to think about that.

Resigning from Adulthood

A dear friend sent this to me today. Definitely something to think about on those days when responsibilities are overwhelming.

To Whom it May Concern : I am hereby officially tendering my resignation as an adult. I have decided I would like to accept the responsibilities of an 8 year old again.

• I want to go to McDonald's and think that it's a four star restaurant.
• I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud puddle and make ripples with rocks.
• I want to think M&Ms are better than money because you can eat them.
• I want to lie under a big oak tree and run a lemonade stand with my friends on a hot summer's day.
• I want to return to a time when life was simple. When all you knew were colors, multiplication tables, and nursery rhymes, but that didn't bother you, because you didn't know what you didn't know and you didn't care. All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of all the things that should make you worried or upset.
• I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest and good. I want to believe that anything is possible.
• I want to be oblivious to the complexities of life and be overly excited by the little things again.
• I want to live simple again. I don't want my day to consist of computer crashes, mountains of paperwork, depressing news, how to survive more days in the month than there is money in the bank, doctor bills, gossip, illness, and loss of loved ones.
• I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams, the imagination, mankind, and making angels in the snow.

So...here's my checkbook and my car-keys, my credit card bills and my 401K statements. I am officially resigning from adulthood.

And if you want to discuss this further, you'll have to catch me first, cause, "Tag You're it!"

Memes

Still reading the Goleman book on Social Intelligence. It's chock full of pertinent ideas--for education and for life. This morning's read was about memes. Memes are ideas that get passed from mind to mind. They gather power when they are associated with strong emotion. Strong memes like "democracy" or "cleanliness" cause us to behave in certain ways. Memes create a sort of unconscious scripting that guide our actions. Our brains attune to certain cue words that prompt us to act accordingly.

All of this set me wondering about current memes in our school. Our kids get community. It permeates our culture. I hear community cue words in their speech--relationships, connected, others, respect, support, need, care, team, partner, family. I see community in action as they respect each others' ideas, ask for and offer help, show concern for others' struggles, make decisions together, solve problems together, play together.

Our kids get ownership. I hear them say "We don't do that here." They use phrases like "my project," "my learning," "our school." They talk about the importance of choice. They welcome visitors into "our space." It was relatively easy to make that happen this year as it was our first year. These students were building a school from scratch and most of them came from places in which they were unsuccessful. They had a vested interest in creating something good and there was always an underlying fear that it could be taken away. It will be interesting to see how this plays out in year two.

Our kids get passion. Their speech is sprinkled with the cue words interest, care, need to know, motivated, real. They know that their work is strongest when they are genuinely interested. They encourage each other to choose projects that they care about. They recognize the difference between learning that grabs them and learning that is hoop jumping.

So what are the memes that we want to intentionally create this year? Biggest on my list is empathy. It would be easy to assume that since they get community, they are naturally empathetic, but that's just not the case for all of them. I have several kids who have bought in to the concept of community because they know it's what we're built on and they want to be here. Intellectually, they understand a need for community, and externally, they fall in line, but internally, their needs still come first. These students of concern rarely put themselves in someone else's shoes--the only relevant concerns are their own. They are pretty up front about "looking out for number one." Knowing their backgrounds, this is understandable, but needs to change. They came a long way this year. Goleman gives me hope that sustained emotionally nourishing relationships have the power to reconfigure patterns in the brain.

I just talked about all of this with my partner teacher and she is in agreement. She would also add something about work ethic and challenge. We're going to give that some more thought.